Who is FreyaJoy Tinbergen?

Reclaim Your Personal Power, Find Inner Peace,

and Own Your Self-Worth

FreyaJoy Tinbergen MSc, Photo: Asha Gaalman Photography

Your Biggest Problem is Your Biggest Gift Antony Robbins FreyaJoy is the creator of The Ultimate Confident Inner Leadership System” for finding inner peace and having Loving Authentic Relationships FreyaJoy is the forthcoming author of  Mastering Independence: Don’t Let an Emotional Manipulative Momma Stop You from Loving Your Adult Life Today.”








As a result of working with FreyaJoy Tinbergen MSc her clients find clarity, build self-respect, self-love, and self esteem, they learn to LEAD their life in a way they LOVE, find inner peace and start building authentic loving relationships. She works with adults who -as an effect of childhood complex psychotrauma- have low self-esteem, struggle with relationships and seek inner peace. If you recognize any of the above: you can have the life of your dreams, and enjoy the authentic relationships and closeness with others that you always wanted. If you are looking for a proven professional who can guide you to overcome:

  • being traumatized by emotional abuse and neglect,
  • loneliness,
  • a sense of being unworthy of love,

you’ve come to the right place. FreyaJoy Tinbergen MSc is a musical psychologist-sexologist. She uses cognitive behavioral therapy, body-psychotherapy, psychosexual therapy, music therapy, voice liberation and is building the Authentic Relationships Community for adult survivors of childhood emotional abuse and neglect who want to learn to build and maintain healthy authentic and loving relationships with significant others. She has studied Clinical and Health Psychology at the University in Leiden and the violin at the conservatorium in Rotterdam. She has been working for 19 years as a sex-therapist in her former therapy practice (for more information see the website centrumvoorseksualiteit.nl). 

Her Story

Since 1998 FreyaJoy has made a name helping women who were unable to have sexual intercourse. She has transformed the lives of hundreds of women who once struggled with this problem, who now enjoy passionate pain-free sexual intercourse with the one they love. She helped men to overcome psychosomatic erection problems and premature ejaculation successfully as well. Many of her clients also had a history of emotional abuse and neglect, and therefore it was only a small step for her to help survivors of childhood emotional abuse and neglect as well. What sets FreyaJoy apart is that she has overcome the same problems as her clients. As an insider, she knows what her clients went through. Having had an emotionally abusive mother herself motivated her to work her personal development continuously her entire life (she’s born in 1960). She has overcome a vaginismus problem herself. Her biggest pain became her greatest gift that can serve people around the world. It was this that motivated her to start a volunteer organization, write her books, found her Center for Sexuality and her Love Empowerment Center.

FreyaJoy's books

FreyaJoy published numerous books in Dutch and English:

  • How I Overcame My Vaginismus
  • How I Overcame My Vaginismus, Part 2 Self-Assessment
  • How to Kiss, Kissing All Over for All Ages
  • Passionate Pain-Free Deflowering
  • 7 Practices to Create More Love in Your Life
  • 3 Dangers that May Shoo Love Away From You and how to fix it

What clients say:

Clients say remarkable things about the impact FreyaJoy’s work with them has on their life. Example comments include:


“FreyaJoy did an excellent job. She helped me in a short period of time to get over deep-seated issues, by taking responsibility and stop blaming others. I feel much stronger, more free and relaxed now.”

Christine Bronson, life coach, singer


“FreyaJoy’s questioning me caused me not to want to “try” to change, but actually to put an end to my unwanted patterns and behaviour… and exactly this is what led to change.”



“With FreyaJoy you get the expertise of a woman who is not only an expert by experience, but as well extremely knowledgeable and skillful in the various methods she applies. I am very grateful for everything that Freyajoy offered and taught me.”


Similar benefits await when you decide to invite FreyaJoy to serve in the powerful ways that she can support your success. If you want to have FreyaJoy’s special “Find-Your-Path-to-Inner-Peace-in-Connection-Consultancy” don’t wast another minute, just connect with her. It would be her pleasure to guide you to achieve the results you desire for the life you imagine by working together. Continue the conversation by sending her an email. Email address: FreyaJoy@LoveEmpowermentCenter.com.
FreyaJoy is seen:

FreyaJoy is seen on:

  • De Balie, Amsterdam: Theatre panel with Hedy d’Ancona, former Dutch Min­ister of Health, Welfare and Culture: Discussion about Sexual Taboos with Audience
  • TV Belgium “Channel Two” (producer: Eyeworks), about Masturbation Lessons
  • SBLP (Branche Organization for Body-Oriented Psychotherapy): Workshop about Psychosexual Therapy
  • NVFB: Dutch Association for Physical Therapy for Pelvic Floor Disorders and Pre- and Postnatal Healthcare: Congress Stress in the Lap: Keynote Speech and Workshops about Vaginismus
  • Universities of Amsterdam and Enschedé, Speech about Vaginismus
  • University of Amsterdam/AMC: workshops for medical students about attitude development towards patients with sexual problems.
  • University of Leiden and at the Academy for Counselling and Coaching (ACC), with Henri van Amerongen: How to Talk about Sex in the Consultation Room
  • Health Center HARA in Leiden (now fused with GGD) about Vaginismus
  • Linda magazine Interview about vaginismus

FreyaJoy gave many speeches about Vaginismus for groups of therapists in the Netherlands. For years she trained pelvic physiotherapist in the treatment of complex vaginismus and dyspareunia.

FreyaJoy's education

More about FreyaJoy’s education

You can feel confident engaging FreyaJoy to guide you to solve these problems. FreyaJoy Tinbergen MSc is a bodywork oriented psychologist-NIP and a sexologist who has chosen to transform her work into group training and coaching and public speaking. She graduated at the University of Leiden as a Clinical and Health psychologist, completed her Specialization Study Sexology at the RINO in Utrecht (Netherlands), she is certified in Rational Emotive Therapy by Albert Ellis Institute for RET in New York (with Wouter Backxs MSc), and has studied traumatherapy with Ellert Nijenhuis PhD and Pat Ogden PhD; Sexual Healing with Jan Voskuil MSc. She completed a 3 year professionals program in Neo Reichian Therapy (Bodyoriented Psychotherapy) at the School for Body Mind Integration with Rashma Schaefer Buss, Jack Painter PhD, and Willem Poppelier MSc

The “Find-Your-Path-to-Inner-Peace-in-Your-Relationships-Consultancy”

In this consultancy you will: 1. Create clarity about the quality of relationships that you want 2. Find the essential building blocks to have the quality of relationships that you want 3. Discover the number 1 thing why you don’t have inner peace in your connections 4. Identify the most powerful actions to overcome your struggles in your connections 5. Find out exactly what to do to create the inner peace that you want in your relationships You will leave the session with the inspiration to really handle your problems now. This session will take 90 minutes one on one (200 euro), or 120 minutes if you bring your partner (300 euro). You will have no oblications afterwards. And everything we discuss will be treated confidentially and will stay between you and FreyaJoy. You can have the consultancy at location in Amsterdam, near the trainstation, or online with Skype or Zoom. If you want to have FreyaJoy’s special “Find-Your-Path-to-Inner-Peace-in-Connection-Consultancy” don’t wast another minute, just connect with her. It would be her pleasure to guide you to achieve the results you desire for the life you imagine by working together. Continue the conversation by sending her an email. Email address: FreyaJoy@LoveEmpowermentCenter.com.


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